The Urban Tantra Professional Training Program Graduate Practitioner Directory

Europe & the United Kingdom

Ama Josephine Budge

Practitioner Directory

Science fiction & fantasy/art writer, queer Black organiser

“The erotic is a measure between the beginnings of our sense of self and the chaos of our strongest feelings. For having experienced the fullness of this depth of feeling and recognizing its power, in honor and self-respect we can require no less of ourselves.” – Audre Lorde, Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic as Power

Ama Josephine Budge is an science fiction & fantasy/art writer, queer Black organiser and graduate of the Urban Tantra® Professional Training Program. She works across the arts, climate change and ecosexuality, decolonial academia and tantric-influenced breath work to invoke power, pleasure and healing with breath, touch and trust for self, earth and QTIABPOC community.

Photo Credit: Zachary Maxwell Stertz

Amanda Middleton

Practitioner Directory

London, U.K.

Amanda Middleton is a registered Systemic and Family Psychotherapist with a speciality in working with marginalised people and relationships. She currently works in the public sector and in private practice in London. She has years of experience working in the area of sex and sexuality, particularly with people whose sexually and/or gender identity deviates from the norm.

Carl Johan & Jennie Rehbinder
(Rehbinder & Rehbinder HB)

Jennie & Calle Rehbinder

Tantric love workshops, relationship coaching, lectures, erotic photography, web design.

Stockholm, Sweden. We travel globally for workshops & lectures. We speak English and Swedish.

Postal : Carl Johan & Jennie Rehbinder Lillåvägen 40
SE-12845 Bagarmossen

Calle: +46-70-79 76 333
Jennie: +46-70-285 10 91

Erotic photography:
Swedish erotic site: Cirkus Eros:

We are leading Swedish sex educators and experts in love and intimacy, devoted to spreading sexual inspiration. Artists, photographers, writers, ceremony leaders and Tantra teachers. The idea is to integrate. For many years we have explored sexuality, spirituality and art together, creating almost 200 love & sex workshops, as well as erotic photo exhibits, a book with erotic short stories, several websites and blogs, including the most popular “Cirkus Eros”.

We combine ancient Tantra, tao and shamanism with modern science, psychology, theatre exercises, ecstatic ceremonies, wild play and sensual touch. We are masters of pleasure, love and sacred sexuality, and we want to share our knowledge and experience with you.

Claire Black

Claire Black

BDSM sessions, rituals, kinky self acceptance
London, United Kingdom

I am an Ecstatic BDSM practitioner and I invite you to bring every aspect of yourself into a session with me, together we will play and dance in hedonistic revellery using tools from BDSM, Tantra and shamanic practices. I offer pleasure, exploration and healing sessions, along with Warrior Initiations and Urban Rituals. Tools I enjoy playing with floggers, canes, needles and blades, fire, wax, bondage, sensuality…the list goes on. All of this in big stompy Dr. Martin boots and with a sweet smile. Check out my website to find out more.

Dakini Cat

Dakini Cat

Sacred Intimate, Tantra Sessions for singles and couples, Workshops.
Ashburton, Devon, UK
+44 (0) 7803 422 829

Cat’s focus is very much on Intimacy and Connection, gently encouraging the heart petals to open wider and wider. Warm hearted, sparky, and challenging, Cat welcomes Men, Women and Couples who are devotees of the Sacred Feminine and are committed to their own personal growth and expansion in order to live more fully and vibrantly in the world.

Dakini Cat’s work is designed to wash away ego identification and separation consciousness to allow the awareness of our Divine Nature to flood through into our lived experience.

Tools used include soul gazing, boundary work, body centred sharing, dance, massage, sensual touch, radical breathing techniques, and playing with the edges of all our senses

Danni Lovefox

Danni Lovefox

Sexological Bodywork, Tantric Ritual as well as Bizarre and Sensual Escapades within the world of Kink
Berlin, Zürich, London and beyond…
Tel.+49 (0)1521 205 3795

I love to work with themes surrounding embodiment – being free to become deeply aware of, connect with and enjoy your body. What desires do you have? Do you dream to make changes? What could they be? If you need suggestions, I have plenty and I’m excited to share them with you!

I like to be playful, holding an open loving space to allow wonderful and intense moments to slowly unfold. Mindful, present, loving touch with such a delightful warm sensuality opens a feeling for whatever is lingering behind these moments in space/time. We can take long pauses together, breath deeply, and sense something bigger than ourselves, an all-enveloping truth.

Lets put down our masks and explore our true nature.

DK Green

DK Green

Psychotherapist/Counsellor, Consultant, Facilitator, Educator and Coach
Chesterfield, United Kingdom
Tel: +44 7973 788376

“I will take you… from who and where you are now closer to who and where you want to be, using your own mind, body and spirit.”

DK specialises in ‘healing the healers and holding those who hold’.

A successful UK private practice focusing on alternative sexualities (LGBTQ, poly, kink, tantra) and personal growth / self development. Additional study of Life Coaching, Cognitive Behavioural Hypnotherapy and NLP inform his practice.

DK teaches, facilitates, assists and leads extensive alternative sexuality classes, groups, talks and workshops (since the 90s) including for 5 UK Universities and National events such as SM Pride, Kinkfest (Organising Director 2004), Polyday, the Pink Therapy Conference and Tantra4GayMen. He has also assisted, trained and worked with international teachers including Barbara Carrellas (as part of the UK Urban Tantra® Professional Practitioners team), Dossie Easton, Raven Kaldera and Lee Harrington.

Elaine Young

Elaine Young

Sexuality, Tantra, Breathwork & Bodywork Facilitator and Guide

Elaine currently facilitates workshops , meetup gatherings and private clients sessions  in London. She has a particular interest in transformational bodywork and breathwork, emotional release, ego freedom, embracing your inner warrior, reclaiming your power and creativity, grief healing, Self Love, somatic sex coaching, conscious kink,  integration of the masculine and feminine, reclaiming your Shadow and tantric practices.

Elaine is Certified Shamanic Breathwork Facilitator, Tantra Educator, Urban Tantra® Professional Training Program Graduate and Sexological Bodyworker (currently completing Certification). She has collaborated and supported events for others in the field including The School of Temples Arts (ISTA). Elaine was medical scientist for many years, she brings that experience of the physical manifestations of dis-ease to her current transformational healing & wellness practices. She bridges the gap from science to spiritually with love and respect for both.

Emma Steel

Emma Steel

Domination, Breathing Techniques, Fetish Encounters
Berlin, Germany & Toronto, Canada
+49 176 78571794

Forget about clichés.

Let’s be real.
Real as in raw.
Real as in vulnerable.

Do you know what I mean when I say wild tenderness? Celebration of lust. Indulgence of playing with power and trust. Precise sadism. Fetish experiments of all kinds. Breathing techniques that bring ecstasy.

You will let me know what is rocking you. And then adjust to my beat.



Heaven on Earth Eros
Erotic Bodywork, Ecstastic Breathwork, Tantric Massage & Rituals, Private & Group Teaching & Facilitation
Bristol, London & beyond

Gayatri has a vision of each of us experiencing Heaven on Earth. Weaving together bodywork and breathwork, plus teachings and insights from Tantra and personal development, she offers embodied experiences of ecstasy and transformation. As facilitator and practitioner, Gayatri is known for her refreshingly down-to-earth and fun approach, joyfulness and vibrancy. Being in our bliss is a heavenly place to be!

Jason Tye

Jason Tye

Dip Tantra, Dip Counselling & MNFSH, Tantra Teacher, Therapist, Practitioner and Masseur, Tantra – Massage – Therapy – Practitioner Training
Bristol, United Kingdom
+44 7941 465910

Jason is the founder and director of Tantra4GayMen which is the UK’s Tantra School for Gay and Bisexual men. Founded in 2009, over 2,500 men have attended a workshop or course with Jason and in 2013 all energy has been diverted to hosting most probably the world’s very first Gay Tantra Festival.

On a day to day basis Jason runs the Gay Tantra Temple for his 121 clients in Bristol and in 2011 he founded Tantra Professionals. Tantra Professionals is a new organisation that goes further in supporting its member with business management, client supervision, teaching high quality Tantric Massage, web site building and much much more, in fact everything you need to get you started as a practitioner.

Jufdi Masseur


Tantra massage, massage.
Surrey, UK
+44 7974 118278

I am a soft-spoken, warm-hearted, bearded Scot, in Surrey UK, with a passion for helping people to experience ecstatic pleasures.  My aim is to connect well with the needs and aspirations of all who receive my massages. I used to reassuring first-timers and nervous or inexperienced clients. Following my own Tantric path for some time, I am now ready to use a very wide variety of wonderful techniques to allow others to explore their own orgasmic corridor and experience their own Tantric energies and shining strengths.  A session with me will be effective, ecstatic, and very memorable. ‘Conventional’ massage treatment sessions are 60 or 90 minutes. Tantra treatments are 90 minute or two hours to enable recipients to benefit from the full strength and subtlety of the experience
I massage bodies of any gender, body shape, age, or orientation, and every ethnic and cultural origin. I particularly enjoy working with couples and partners.

Katrine Berling

Katrine Berling

Sexologist, orgasm expert, couple’s sex therapy and sex coaching, breathing exercises, women’s group
Copenhagen, Denmark

I do one-to-one sessions and couples sessions. My sessions are primarily sexual coaching, but I can also do breathing exercises. I teach orgastic meditation, the jade egg, and guide women to have better orgasms.

Kirsteen A Farley

Kirsteen Farley

Certified Somatic Sexologist (CA), Sex educator & Pleasure Virtuosa
Holistic Wellbeing for Body Mind & Soul
Based In United Kingdom and Australia
Tel +44 7768 638602

Kirsteen is a woman dedicated to supporting others on their journey to embrace wholeness and celebrate their own unique sexual nature.For the past decade Kirsteen has consciously immersed herself in the realms of sexuality, diving deep into her own darkness and unlocking her Esensual nature.

Kirsteen is a Certified Somatic Sexological Bodywork, Sex Educator, Professional Urban Tantric Practioner and holds certificates in Counselling/Psychotherapy, Energetic healing, Massage Therapy and several other alternative healing modalities. Kirsteen incorporates Shamanic, Taoist, Tantric and Western Philosophies into her practice to assist in bringing about a deep alchemical transformation within each individual if they so choose.

Kristina J

Kristina J

A unique British Escort, Erotic Arts Temptress Tantric Domina, and Kinkster, based in Huddersfield.
Yorkshire, Bristol, London and International
Tel: 00 44 7711092892

Kristina invites you to explore erotic encounters, intimate liaisons and conscious sexuality. Mixing up the erotic arts to take you on a journey of deep sexual exploration in a space where you are free to let go and explore.

Kristina’s own unique style mixes Tantra and Erotic Energy play to create a wildly erotic intimate encounter. She encourages her clients to explore a more connecting liaison with a more intimate connection. She calls upon her Tantra and energy work in all her sessions and really encourages her clients to become aware of their boundaries and in doing so understand and explore their desires so they can be met more fully. Taking her clients on a journey where you will fly high and then dive deep into blissful states as you explore erotic encounters.

Kian de la Cour BA, BSc Hons

Kian de la Cour

Somatic sex coach, erotic bodyworker & teacher, nutritional therapist, masturbation coach, CPD courses for sexuality professionals
Devon, London UK & online
+44 7952 469848

I safely support individuals and couples of all genders to ground their ownership of their erotic power through embodiment practices. I bring 20 years of experience to my practice. Modalities used include personalised sex education, life coaching, breath-work, myofascial bodywork and Taoist Erotic Massage. I also co-sponsor Sexological Bodywork Training and Quodoushka (shamanic sexuality) workshops in the UK with my beloved.

Lilith Wildwood BA, MA

Lilith Wildwood BA,MA

Awakening Ecstatic Consciousness
Lilith is a tantric witch, offering sacred psychotherapy, sexual healing, and courses in magick, meditation and sacred sexuality.
Brighton, United Kingdom

I hold juicy and loving sacred space for radical truth and experience, inviting your being into ecstatic transformation.

My practice a place of transformation and ecstasy where deep healing and spiritual growth can be achieved.

I am dedicated to the divine within YOU. I will help you to step into your power, your truth and your wisdom on every level. I am experienced in holding a safe and loving space which will enable you to travel to deep and previously unexplored places without fear of judgement.

Mark And Karen Sutton

Mark And Karen Sutton

Tantra Breathwork,Tantra Massage and Experiential Integrated Tantra (Breath and Bodywork), Tantra Workshops, Swedish and Holistic Massage, Intimacy Coaching, Passive and Active Meditations.
Ireland, United Kingdom

Tel: Mark 083 397 8707 || Karen 083 123 1686

Our mission at Tantra Awakenings is to enable you to connect, heal & transform; living the life you desire through conscious breath, touch and coaching.

Mark and Karen are a husband and wife partnership dedicated to the Tantric path. They have been practicing Tantra for over 15 years and their personal journey with Tantra has been as rewarding as it has been challenging. Tantra—living life to its fullest extent, from the heart and with awareness and presence—has presented them opportunities for expansion and development which they would not have otherwise experienced. In 2012 they formed Tantra Awakenings to bring their love of Tantra and their wish to empower others to live their lives as they wish to live.

Maz Michael

Maz Michael

Brighton, UK
Pink Therapy

Maz Michael is a BACP Accredited Person Centred Counsellor and holds an additional qualification in CBT approach. They work privately offering individual counselling and specialise in working with clients from the LGBTQI population. They have a particular interest in genderqueer/trans* identities.

Meredith Reynolds CSB, BA(Hons)

Meredith Reynolds

Somatic sex coach/educator, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, authentic consent practitioner

Meredith works with people to help them become more present in their bodies and more connected with their erotic selves. In practical terms, this involves teaching body-based (somatic) techniques such as conscious breath, sensory awareness and erotic mindfulness – and supporting people to establish their own practice upon these foundations. The results can include better concentration, more conscious and considered life choices, and better sex.

Her particular areas of interest include:

  • erotic bodywork combined with breathwork to prolong pleasure states
  • exploration of parts of the body that hold both pleasure and taboo
  • teaching authentic consent practice
  • supporting people with trans- and altered bodies to integrate changes

Meredith uniquely combines sex geekery, honouring and conscious touch, and clear professional boundaries to support people in their erotic expansion.

Mike Wardle

Mike Wardle

Sex and Relationship Coaching,
Tantric Massage, Coaching for Intimacy, Passion and Ecstasy.

UK: London and Hertfordshire, or phone and Skype.

I guide people to discover new depths of intimacy, passion and ecstasy through sex and relationship coaching for individuals and couples.

I also offer tantric massage aimed at healing, the connection of heart and sex and the exploration of Eros and ecstasy.

Mistress K

Mistress K

A professional Dominatrix who is passionate powerful, driven and demanding all of the time.
Tel 0044 7743 944118

Mistress K invites you to explore your fantasies so they can be met more fully. She will take you on a journey of conscious BDSM and Kink mixed with Tantra and energy work principals. She will encourage you to explore Sensuality within BDSM and welcome you into surrender. From here the journey can continue as taking it as far as you would would like within your boundaries and consent. With over 13 years experience she is skilled in fetish, BDSM, Kink, Shadow and energy work. She creates a safe space which enable you to let go, spend your wings and fly becoming your true self while being exquisitely held.

Mistress Kalyss Mercury (MKM)

Mistress Kalyss Mercury (MKM)

Pro-domme BDSM and fetish practitioner
Oslo, Norway and European tours

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Mistress Kalyss Mercury (MKM) is among the world’s top BDSM and fetish practitioners. With 13 years professional experience in BDSM and fetish, she will guide you on a journey beyond your wildest dreams. An expert in a wide range of fetish activities, as well as tantric practices, she caters to men, women, and couples; beginners and kink veterans alike. She also teaches BDSM mindset and techniques in small group settings or privately. Standing six feet tall, strong, fit and strict, Kalyss will mesmerize you with beauty, confidence and charisma. She takes pride in embodying The Goddess, hence, discretion and respect for your requests are paramount. MKM travels extensively, please check her FB or email her for recent tour plans.

Nils Kriedner

Nils Kriedner

Sahaja Tantra-institute
Tantra-group and individual sessions, teacher training
Berlin & Dresden, Germany

The Sahaja Tantra institute offers the possibility to experience the completely intuitive and natural path of Sahaja Tantra which is based on the three following foundations: Inner freedom and the art of ecstasy, contact and the art of loving, vision power and the art of living. We teach these three foundations in workshops, trainings, teacher trainings as well as in individual sessions.

Rebecca Lowrie

Rebecca Lowrie

Creator and lead practitioner of Sexual Alchemy
Sexual Alchemy: The art of sexual transformation, pleasure and intimacy
London, United Kingdom
+44 (0) 7903 014 364

Rebecca is a catalyst for deep transformation and sexual awakening. Using her innate, intuitive sense of sexuality along with formal training and years of personal exploration, Rebecca is able to help you connect to your sexuality, your sexual power, in deep and mysterious ways. She will awaken a deeper aspect of your sexual self than you have ever experienced before, so that it will flow through you for your continued pleasure, health, wellbeing and expansion. Rebecca offers sessions and workshops for people of all genders and sexual orientations exploring conscious sexuality, pleasure, intimacy, tantra, conscious kink and more…

Rowan Parkes

Rowan Tinca Parkes

Oxford Tantra Wave
Business creatrix and workshop facilitator, psychosexual coach/ educator, ritual facilitator, painter and body-artist, fire lover, writer
United Kingdom

Rowan is the creatrix behind Making Love with God, and the co-creator of the Oxford Tantra Wave. She works to weave together the threads of sex and spirit, making magic carpets that catapult the seeker into ecstasy.

Her work provides a safe and potent chrysalis for deep self-acceptance, integration, and transformation, and for close encounters with a god who worships you – just the way you are.

Her other passions include setting people on fire for pleasure and transformation,facilitating handfastings, getting down and dirty with paints and words, walking on the land, ecstatic dance, and holding safe spaces for the difficult questions about love, sex, and gender.

Ruby May

Ruby May

Workshop facilitator

Berlin and beyond

Ruby May is a British born, Berlin-based edge-dwelling, truth-seeking creative visionary, whose passion is to inspire us to ‘live beyond our imagination’.  Her international workshops weave together her love for playful, magical spaces, with the themes of authentic expression, intimacy and shame-free sexuality, using her background as an intimacy coach, Tantric Domina, sexological bodyworker. She was co-founder of the Sacred Kink Academy, that teaches kink for personal and spiritual growth, travels the world with Elsewhere, a two day event exploring r/evolution through play, and is currently co-creating an international online directory of sexuality professionals and sex-positive events, called SoulKittens with her colleague Seani Love.

Sarah Rose Bright

Sarah Rose Bright

Talk/body coaching to discover and explore your erotic self and expand your sexual horizons, through Tantric practices, masturbation / self pleasure

Liverpool, Manchester, United Kingdom. Coaching via Skype or phone.
0044 7811 169 508
Skype: sarahrosebright

I am a qualified Sex Coach, sex educator and Tantric practitioner who passionately believes that pleasure is the best teacher. My mission is to bring more pleasure into the world. I will guide you to discover, explore and live your vast capacity for pleasure and the magic within you—your sexual, heart and soul’s desires. Learning new ways to feel and be in your pleasure can resolve many sexual issues and concerns naturally. And what you learn in your sexual pleasure can enrich and enhance all areas of your life.

Seani Love

Practitioner Directory

Private sessions and group workshops.


Seani Love is an Australian-born, London-resident male sexuality professional with expertise in Sex Magic, Conscious Kink and Neo Tantra. Seani specialises in the healing and empowering aspects of kink and intimacy and is primarily driven by spreading acute awareness of the language of consent and boundaries. In 2015 Seani won Sex Worker of the Year in the UK. He has recently featured in Cosmopolitan Magazine, The Times (UK) and he now features in an award-winning motion picture (“Touch Me Not”, 2018).
He is available for private sessions and group workshops via his website.

Shaft Uddin

Shaft Uddin

Sacred Sexual Awakener, Tantric Massage, Shamanic Sexual Journey, Female Empowerment Sessions, Rituals, Twin Goddess Activation, Workshop Facilitator

I am an Ecstatic BDSM practitioner and I invite you to bring every aspect of yourself into a session with me, together we will play and dance in hedonistic revellery using tools from BDSM, Tantra and shamanic practices. I offer pleasure, exploration and healing sessions, along with Warrior Initiations and Urban Rituals. Tools I enjoy playing with floggers, canes, needles and blades, fire, wax, bondage, sensuality…the list goes on. All of this in big stompy Dr. Martin boots and with a sweet smile. Check out my website to find out more.

Tara Bliss

Practitioner Directory

Erotic escapades & ecstatic encounters, Tantric Massage, Sensual Domination
Bristol & London

Have you played on the fullest spectrum of erotic expression? Are you longing to be deeply touched through erotic massage, or taken to the exquisite edge of ecstasy with a tantric tie and tease?

Tara Bliss offers erotic escapades and ecstatic encounters based on your unique desires and longings. Perhaps there is something you have never experienced or asked for previously, a fantasy you wish to explore. Or perhaps you simply wish to enjoy the intimacy and connection of being with an open-hearted and open-minded lover.

Feeling curious? Why not get in touch to discover more…

United States & Canada

Andrés, Sacred Intimate

Andres Cordero

I offer sessions on embodied awareness, sacred intimacy, Reiki energetic work, conscientious touch, Tantra, and conscious kink, or BDSM.  I offer group programs and one-on-one sessions in-person and by video call.

Yo hablo español.

Austin, TX USA. I travel frequently to: Santa Fe, NM, San Francisco, CA, and New York, NY.

I believe that there is considerable wisdom in the body. Unfortunately our upbringing, cultural constructs, and societal expectations discourage us from listening to our bodies and convince us to remain prisoners to our minds. To live a more healthy life, one free of stress, tension, and frustration, we must work each moment to stay connected to our physical selves, to stay attuned to our energies as well as those around us, to honor what is natural and of this earth, and to focus on the present moment, as it is the only thing that truly exists.

My focus is working with all energetic beings of all manifestations, genders, orientations, and persuasions, straight, bisexual, gay, or questioning, as I believe we are all experiencing the human condition in the same physical embodiment.

Live your life joyfully, soulfully and ecstatically!

Dr. Betty Martin

Dr. Betty Martin

Seattle WA, USA

I help people learn how to have more fun, with touch, affection and sexuality, and I do that in a variety of ways. Mostly hands-on.

These days I’m focused on mentoring and training other practitioners in consent, boundaries and professional protocols. I’m the developer of The Wheel of Consent [], which is the center of my work with both clients and practitioners, and the center of my main course called ‘Like a Pro, the Wheel of Consent for Practitioners.’ I travel globally to teach.

Blake Adams

Blake Adams

Erotic massage, life coaching, BDSM training, documentary film consultant
US: San Francisco, CA

Blake has been active in the BDSM scene for over 6 years and has practiced Tantra for that long, too. He is a skilled communicator and consultant and tailors his work to meet your specific needs, and desires.

Caroline Carrington

Caroline Carrington

Certified Tantra Educator, Conscious Relationship & Intimacy Coach and Dakini

Based in the San Francisco Bay Area but travels to Hawaii, Boston and Canada.
510 545 6104
Twitter: @JewelotusTantra

Private Tantra Session (Individuals & Couples)
International Workshops & Retreats
Personalized Tantra Intensives
Coaching (in person/Skype)
Provider Mentorship

Caroline Carrington inspires people to live empowered lives across the US and around the world. She expands people’s experience of pleasure, intimacy and connection through relationships, energy play and dynamic meditation. Caroline invites you to get out of your head and into your body using the power of pleasure to transform. Her specialities include sexual empowerment, emotional release, ejaculation control and mastery, erectile dysfunction and healing of past trauma.

Caroline grew up in Cape Town, South Africa and has lived all over the world including London, Australia and New Zealand before moving to the Bay Area in 2006. Her curiosity-driven passion for travel has fueled her exploration of cultures and lifestyles around the world. Caroline is LGBQTIP-friendly and breaks down the traditional gender stereotype roles of masculine and feminine often upheld in the Tantra world. Caroline loves building bridges between communities in the realms of Tantra, BDSM, Polyamory, and Bhakti Yoga and is passionate about walking Tantra out of the bedroom and into the world.

Ms. Jaeleen Bennis

Ms. Jaeleen Bennis

Professional Domina, Sensual Massage Artist & Creator of Bondassage and Elysium
US: New York, Dallas, Los Angeles, Santa Cruz
Australia: Byron Bay, Sydney
Canada: Toronto,Vancouver
Europe: London

Jaeleen Bennis is the creator of Bondassage®, a program that licenses practitioners around the world in her uniquely sensual and provocative method of bodywork.  She is a certified massage therapist (CMT) trained in Shiatsu, Deep Tissue, Swedish and Sports Massage, and has studied cross-cultural healing modalities from Reiki to shamanic journeying.  She is versed in Tantra and BDSM, and believes in sexual exploration as a path to self-discovery and healing.  She is the co-author (with Eve Minax) of Bondassage: Kinky Erotic Massage Tips for Lovers, published by Dymaxicon.

Kendra Holliday

Kendra Holliday

St. Louis, MO

Personal Consulting

I offer personal consulting services to individuals and couples. Sex is my focus, but it ties in with many of the other aspects of our life – family, business, relating to others. I take a holistic approach and specialize in alternative lifestyles, fetishes, BDSM, tantra, energy work, breakups, sex-positive parenting, polyamory and other relationship dynamics. I operate on mutual respect. Confidentiality is assured. Lifestyle and kink-friendly! I prefer meeting face-to-face, but if you are located somewhere besides St. Louis, email/chat/Skype/phone are all options.

Sex Surrogacy

A sex surrogate, also called a surrogate partner, is a person who helps others overcome social and sexual issues through hands on intimacy. It is intimate. It is therapeutic. It is enlightening.

Lola D. Houston

Lola D. Houston

Coaching, consultation and whispering for individuals and couples • Essential Touch • Ecstatic Body Meditation • Holistic Sexuality • Gender & gender expression • Relationships • Communication • Body image • Self care • Dark Arts

United States and Canada, with remote (Skype-based) services available anywhere.
(802) 503-0297

Live your true life. Find your real self. How do you get there? Let me guide you through a variety of methodologies and techniques, tailored to your own individual identity and circumstance. Each method I share is something I have spent many years studying, understanding not simply “how to do it” but why it makes sense for us. Whether it is deep listening, or involves Urban Tantra®, Consent, Essential Touch or something more exotic, the constellation of possibilities is nearly endless. As caring, sentient beings, discovering who we are and what we truly want is not a simple process. It takes time and effort. Let me help you open doors and discover who you truly are as we create your “User Manual for the Self”.

Selina Alba

Sensual massage, therapeutic massage, somatic bodywork, sensual domination, Tantric explorations Seattle, WA and San Francisco Bay Area, CA (206) 707-9327

Sensual massage, therapeutic massage, somatic bodywork, sensual domination, Tantric explorations

Seattle, WA and San Francisco Bay Area, CA
(206) 707-9327

Selina’s practice is rooted in the Healing Power of Pleasure. In everything she does in the world, with each individual that walks in her door, pleasure is the means by which they heal. Our bodies are often a site of pain, self-hate and shameful judgement. Through pleasure, touch and a nurturing, intuitive presence, Selina creates sessions to nourish and heal, investigate fantasy, and to teach erotic and intimacy skills. All of this work deepens the relationship between the body and spirit. Selina grounds her training in archetypal psychology, art therapy, massage therapy and somatic bodywork with experience in Tantric principles and a lifetime exploration in positive sensualtiy. Trans*, queer, LGB, poly and kink aware and welcoming.

Sinclair Sexsmith

Sinclair Sexsmith

Gender coaching, power play (domination, submission, topping, bottoming), queer sexualities, trans and genderqueer expertise, tantric massage, overcoming bed death, stone sexualities, training to be a better submissive or give service, BDSM, kink, leather

West coast, USA

Sinclair Sexsmith is an erotic coach, educator, and writer. They write the award-winning personal online project Sugarbutch Chronicles: The Sex, Gender, and Relationship Adventures of a Kinky Queer Butch Top at since 2006, have contributed to more than twenty anthologies, and edited Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica. They travel frequently to teach workshops on gender and sexuality.

Australia & New Zealand

Aleena Aspley

Aleena Aspley

Certified Somatic Sexologist / Sex Educator / Tantra Professional, Ra’Anui Erotic Tantra Massage Brisbane, Kinkassage (My Trademarked Kinky Massage), Tantra Kinkassage, Tantra Spankassage, Certified Bondassage, Angel Card Intuitive, Theta Healer & Reiki Practitioner

Brisbane, AU
0404 449 433

A Ra‚Anui Erotic Tantric Bodywork or Somatic Sex Educational session with me can either be a one-on-one, hands-on coaching session or an informative, educational clothed evening or weekend group workshop. It is my passion to work with singles and couples of all genders and share my knowledge about living a Tantric lifestyle, to awaken more bliss, pleasure and fulfilment into their personal life and/or relationship. A private Ra‚Anui Erotic Tantric Massage session with me can arouse dormant, sensual energy and awaken sublime ecstatic states of consciousness. Powerful full-body sexual healing can take place when human beings can be touched in an intuitive, safe and caring manner with pelvic release bodywork, breath, sound and my sensual Ra’Anui Erotic Tantric touch techniques. Tantra is about living more sensuously, consciously and with true freedom from the heart, mind body and soul. It is every human’s god-given right to experience more pleasure and bliss either in their relationship or by themselves.

Do also enquire about my other pleasure modalities Tantra Kinkassage and Bondassage.

Alex Rossiter

Alex Rossiter

Kinbaku Practitioner
Sydney, Australia

+61 450 017 366

Alex is a student of the art of kinbaku, or Japanese rope bondage. His style of kinbaku combines elements of Tantric breathwork, music, dance and BDSM to deliver an unparalleled experience of surrender and connection. Alex works to create safe and held spaces for all genders and orientations.

Ally Thomas

Ally Thomas

Tantra Trainer, Teacher and Healer, Tantric Spiritual Consultant, Sex Love and Intimacy Relationship
Coach, Sacred Sexuality Consultant, Sacred Sexuality Experience, Tantra education, Tantra Pleasure Experience,
Tantra Massage – for men women couples

Adelaide, all states of Australia, New Zealand, Asia

+61 419 038 310

Ally has learnt and practiced tantra for over 18 years, has been teaching since 2008. She educates men, women, couples in Tantra Massage, group Playshops, Tantra Pleasure Parties, Tantra Teacher and Practitioner training in Australia and New Zealand.

Her book “What Women Really Want – 7 Tantric Sex Techniques for Men and Couples” published 2014.

Ally Kazam

Ally Kazam

Bondassage and Elysium Practitioner
Sessions for Men, Women, Couples

Adelaide, Australia and all states of Australia, New Zealand, Asia

+61 419 038 310

Do you want to know about the “50 Shades of Grey” experience? How to safely have a taste of BDSM with Ally Kazam…

Bondassage sessions combine bondage and massage – you are tied to the massage table, stimulated in many different ways, without any pain and leaving no marks. Drop into another space in Ally’s sessions…

Elysium is similar to Bondassage, however without the percussion, and no resolution at the end…

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

Conscious Erotic Arts Practitioner:  Erotic Massage, Escort and Erotic Companion
Sydney, Australia


Artemisia offers a wide range of opportunities to explore and play with conscious sexuality including erotic massage, escort, intimate companion, erotic rituals. Her philosophy is that all forms of sexual expression are improved when entered into with respect, presence and fully emodied, in-the-moment scrumptuousness. She is guides her clients in how to stop having sex and start truly experiencing sex. She draws on aspects of tantra, taoism, sexological bodywork, lomilomi massage, sexual shamanism and is an Urban Tantra® Practitioner Training graduate. She is well known all around Australia for giving the “Rolls Royce” of erotic massage as well as for her ability to create the space for people to comfortably explore and express their authentic sexual potential.

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

Goddess of Conscious Kink: BDSM, Fetish & Rituals
Sydney, Australia

0420 415 658

Artemisia is an experienced and highly respected Mistress, switch and all round Goddess of kink. Play… Submit… Transform… She offers a wide range of sessions that allow each person to explore their unique wiring holistically. As a top she easily take control with a cat-like grace and is every inch the lady. She draws on aspects of tantra, Jungian shadow work, ritual traditions, shamanism and is an Urban Tantra® Practitioner Training graduate. She trained under some of Australia’s top Mistresses at The Domina’s Realm and has developed her own unique style of Kink that stems from her empathetic heart and delectably wicked imagination. Sessions range from the light and playful through the intense and carry the potentional for self discovery and personal transformation as well as a damn good play.

Catherine Carter ACA, Dip TPC

Catherine Carter

Personal Harmony, Transpersonal Psychotherapist & Sex Counsellor
Melbourne, Australia. Skype worldwide.
+61 (0)418 550 569

Catherine is a Psychotherapist and Sex Counsellor for singles and couples. Her sessions include opening up to the intimate lover within: From this authentic place, when we are truly present in our own inner loving connection with self, we are able to fully share ourselves with others. There’s no nudity or sexual touch in the sessions.

Qualifications include: Dip.Transpersonal Counselling, Traditional Tao, Tantra and Astrological Counselling. Nineteen years ago Cath started working with Barbara Carrellas and Chester Mainard, and now assists Barbara on her Urban Tantra® Professional Training Program. Her workshops include ‘Creative Harmony; Sacred Journeys for Women’, ‘Sensual Harmony’, ‘Sexuality and Soul’, and ‘Sex, Power and the Shadow’. She is Vice President of the Society of Australian Sexologists (SAS) and on the Ethics committee of Australian National Tantra Association.

Cyndi Darnell

Cyndi Darnell

Holistic sex therapist, relationship coach, sex educator, public speaker & counselor. Available for both in-person and Skype appointments.
Location: Melbourne, Australia

Cyndi Darnell is a qualified, holistic sex therapist, relationship coach, sex educator, public speaker and counsellor, specialising in work with individuals and couples (and beyond) who want to develop a more intimate, profound and fulfilling connection with their sexual selves. Cyndi values the importance of pleasure, and believes that a healthy sex life is part of an overall approach to holistic wellness. Cyndi sees people of all orientations, genders and outlooks from her rooms in Melbourne, or by appointment via Skype.

Danniel Shervey

Danniel Shervey

Ecstasy Consultant. Somatic Sex Therapy, Training and Education.  Body-based bliss for personal growth.
Brisbane, Australia

I serve to co-create desired change from my clients here-and-now experience, to enable a more integrated way of being ecstatic in the world, and to bring a level of self-awareness that is commonly found in Zen and Tantra. After a session clients will have “lived” knowledge (instead of a ‘told’ knowledge) to take away, and integrate into their life.

Deej Juventin, CSB, MA

Deej Juventin, CSB, MA

Sex Coaching and Embodied Therapies; Professional support for practitioners who work with sex; Professional training for somatic sex educators
Brisbane and throughout Australasia

Tel: (+ 61) 0415034204

I’m passionate about supporting people of all genders and sexualities to learn more about our bodies, sex and sexuality, and work through sexual issues and concerns, so we can connect more fully with all aspects of self, with the people in our lives, and with the environments that sustain us.

Modalities include sex coaching, somatic sex education, sexological bodywork, Tantra, sexual shamanism, kahuna, and embodied counselling – accessing the body’s capacities for learning, growth, and moving forward. I work with individuals, couples, and groups. An important part of my work is offering professional support to people working with sex, including sex workers, sex therapists, sex coaches, and tantrikas.

I work with a great team of educators to teach the Certificate in Sexological Bodywork in Australia.

Eyal Tantraislove

Eyal Tantraislove

Sex and relationship coach, Tantra bodywork professional
Melbourne, Australia

Eyal has been studying and practicing various forms of Tantra, sexuality, yoga and meditation since 2000. He is known for his humor, integrity, strong presence and grounded approach. You will be left inspired and blown away with his real life stories and experiences. Eyal is working with women on resolving sexual trauma and expanding their orgasmic potential, with men on becoming more conscious and present as well as better lovers, and is helping couples come to new levels of intimacy and connection. Sexuality and Relationships Workshops in Australia (Red Lotus) “Tantra Is Love” workshop will inform and empower you to: – Express and celebrate your sexuality – Experience more pleasure than you ever imagined was possible – Deepen your intimacy, love and connection with your partner – Be empowered in your daily life and – Manifest your unique gift in the world.

Described as “life-changing”, “mind-blowing” and “transformational”, the workshop combines theoretical knowledge, fun exercises, group discussions and “homework” for later solo and couple practice. People of any background and orientation are welcome. It’s also a great opportunity to meet like-minded people—most participants are usually young singles.

Pauline Cannon

Pauline Cannon

Reiki, Intuitive Sensual Massage, Breath, Aromatherapy Massage, Quantum Touch, Tantra Massage, Healing Crystals and Erotic Gardens
Waihi Beach, N. Island, New Zealand
Cell: 006-421025-12226
Home: 006-47863-5155

Healing Touch by Pauline offers mindful healing touch to all genders. I help people find balance in their lives by teaching them to activate their “Self Healing” mechanisms within their own bodies. I combine the modalities of Reiki, Intuitive Sensual Massage, Breath, Aromatherapy Massage, Quantum Touch, Tantra Massage and Healing Crystals to work with the whole person. Remedies and session are customized specifically for each client. I am blessed to be able to share my knowledge with those interested in fully experiencing and exploring ecstatic pleasure in their body, through sensuous, healing mindful touch. I am also a passionate organic and permaculture gardener and take pleasure in designing and creating healing sensual gardens for my clients, so they can have an exciting outdoor space to play, love and meditate.

Shaney Marie

Shaney Marie

Sacred Sexuality Arts, Tantra education, Tantra Massage.

Melbourne, Australia

Shaney works with all people encouraging a more sex positive attitude and supporting individuals in discovering their unique sexuality within the realms of the sacred.

Shaney’s sessions are educational and experiential and she will create a space for you to be heard, to be present, to be open and to learn about the wisdom of your body.

Taranga Anurag

Taranga Anurag


Tantra Massage, Sensual and Erotic Massage, Couples Massage and Training in Somatic Touch Techniques, Into the Heart Sessions, Workshop facilitator and Co Creator of Techniques for a Better Love Life.

Paddington, Sydney, Australia
(+61) 0447 577 525

Offering years of experience in massage and body-based or ‘somatic’ therapy, I work with breath and touch to encourage a feeling of wholeness, oneness, pleasure and relaxation.

My passion, and my path in life, is to bring ecstatic pleasure to the whole body. I believe the entire body – genitals included – should be touched and massaged in a loving, respectful way. This honors the body, activates the body’s natural energy within, and allows expansion and healing to take place. I’m learning every day to live, love and to be open to opportunities when they present themselves – and to gain a greater acceptance of every moment. I aim to live in harmony with the planet, and to bring greater harmony, joy and balance to others through touch and open communication, using the skills I’ve learned along my journey.

Some of my skills and qualifications include… Heartworks Lomi Lomi Massage, Hawaiian Hot Stone Massage, Breath Work, Meditation Leader, Urban Tantra® Professional, Bondassage Practitioner & Trainer, Erotic Touch and Sensual Massage, Lingam and Yoni Massage.

Taranga Anurag

Taranga Anurag

Certified Practitioner and Trainer in Bondassage and Elysium Bondassage

Paddington, Sydney, Australia

(+61) 0447 577 525

It is my passion, and my path in life to bring ecstatic pleasure to the whole body. I specialise in body play and healing in disciplines like Tantra, Erotic Massage and Sensual Massage, Breathwork, Lomi Lomi Massage, and much more. Having found my true calling with Bondassage, I am inspired to be able to share with you this powerful exploration of your sexual boundaries.

What is Bondassage I hear you asking.
Bondassage is a kinky, sensual massage designed as the perfect introduction to BDSM. It allows the receiver to experience all the thrills of light and sensual BDSM play without the harshness of BDSM in its more traditional form. Combining massage techniques with breath and energy work, body percussion and sensual flogging, Bondassage is the ultimate experience in letting go. Exploring and embracing our ‘shadow’ side is a powerful means of finding transformation and healing. If you’re interested in discovering more about a different approach to bodywork, exploring submissive desire, entering a profound and blissful sub-space and embracing a new kind of pleasure, Bondassage is the massage modality you’ve been waiting for.

I offer trainings in both Bondassage and Elysium Bondassage. For more information on trainings please go to my website and please, if you have any questions or enquiries send me an email.


Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Clinical Sexologist
Sexuality and intimacy coaching, sexuality education workshops, life coaching

Dr Martha Tara Lee is Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching in Singapore. She provides sexuality and intimacy coaching for individuals and couples, conducts sexual education workshops and speaks at public events in Asia.

She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists), as well as certified sexologist with ACS (American College of Sexologists). She holds a Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as certificates in practical counselling, life coaching and sex therapy.

Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40′ by Her World, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot.

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