Workshops and Events Hosted by Our Graduates

30 September 2018

Dark Tantra Play Party

Facilitated by:  Alex Sebastian Morgan

Location: Iron Giant Loft, Oakland, CA

Have you ever fantasized about being immersed in a safe, cozy, and inspiring environment to explore the edge of your Tantric sensuality and kink sexuality?

Allow iX-Chel Sandivel and Alex Sebastian Morgan to guide you through grounding and transcending Tantric breathing techniques and intimate practices of power and surrender!

It’ll be a day to remember being lead by two amazing facilitators who love everything sacred and kinky about sexuality. Come dance, play, be witnessed, celebrated in your yum raw sexual power! Explore your inner spiritual dominatrix as we celebrate the divinity of the body in all its flavors, kinks, and colors. Bring your toys, rope, floggers, blind folds, friends, and an open heart to the sweet intimacy and transformation possible at this event.

Fee: $28 for women and nonbinary, $50 for men, $65 for couples

Find out more and register here.

6 October 2018

Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the 21st Century

Facilitated by:  Barbara Carrellas

Location: New York Open Center, New York City, NY

Urban Tantra® is a radically updated Tantra practice for modern sexual/spiritual explorers that can be used by everyone. Tantra is not only a sexual practice; it is a way of life and a path to spiritual growth. On the Tantric path, pleasure, vision and ecstasy are celebrated and can be found in both everyday life and in peak sexual experiences.  Develop deep, heart-centered connections (with a partner or within ourselves), and explore the bliss that comes when our spiritual and sexual paths are one.

Note: This workshop is for both couples and singles. It does not include nudity or explicit sexual touch. All genders and sexual preferences welcome.

Fee: $145 for members, $160 for non-members

Find out more and register here.

7 October 2018

The Erotic Potential fo Breath

Facilitated by:  Elise Bish

Location: Maha Rose, Brooklyn, NY

Do you want to take your sexual experiences to the next level?

Do you find yourself trapped in your head or disconnected during sex?

Want to build more intimacy and depth with your lovers?

Breath is the single most powerful tool for elevating our erotic experiences.

The more you breathe, the more you feel. Bringing more consciousness to your breath during intimate moments leads to more powerful and satisfying ecstatic experiences. Not only does your breathing have an effect on your physical arousal, but it also opens you up to more emotional, energetic, and spiritual connection during sex.

Bringing conscious breath into your sexual play (solo or with partners) helps you to stay more present, fully embodied, and in tune with the sensations of the moment. Coming back to the breath can get you out of your head and drop you into your body. Breath acts as both a portal for releasing emotional blocks, and a fuel for stoking your erotic fire. Breathing can increase arousal and sensitivity, enhancing your whole body’s erotic potential.

Join sexuality educator and Desire Catalyst, Elise Bish, for a two-hour experiential workshop on how to maximize the erotic potential of your breath.

In this workshop you will:

  • Discover the 4 most powerful tools for elevating your orgasmic experiences
  • Learn simple breathing techniques for more satisfying sex
  • Release energetic blocks and stuck emotions through ecstatic breathwork
  • Slow down and feel the value of presence
  • Explore connection between erotic breath and sacred sexual experiences

This workshop is open to people of all genders, sexual orientations, and relationship configurations. During partnered activities, folks will only be paired with consent. All exercises can be done solo or with a partner.

Fee: $45

Find out more and register here.

7 October 2018

Intro to Energy Sex

Facilitated by:  Alex Sebastian Morgan

Location: Iron Giant Loft, Oakland, CA

Would you like to master playing with sexual energy? In this PG-13 to R interactive workshop, you’ll learn how to:

  • Use pleasure to reset the central nervous system
  • Get in touch with your own energetic field, manipulate it, and turn it into a powerful source of connection and bliss
  • Tap into the energy of all 7 major chakras by yourself, with a partner, or in a group
  • Discover the differences in “taste” between energetic orgasms from chakra to chakra
  • Touch another to tune into, access, tease and play with their erotic energy, the energy of two people, or the energy of an entire group!
  • Play with gender fluidity from the place that we are all “just energy”

All genders and orientations welcome.

Fee: $30 for individuals, $50 for pairs

Find out more and register here.

12 October 2018

Women, Sex & Power: A Symposium

Facilitated by:  Barbara Carrellas

Location: New York Open Center, New York City, NY

The #MeToo movement and the Women’s Marches have given rise to a new era for women, filled with new possibilities for sexual and political empowerment. But what exactly do sexual and political empowerment look like? It depends on who you ask. Not all women have the same needs, priorities, or goals. Barbara Carrellas hosts a dynamic symposium of brave, visionary women from different racial, cultural, social, and professional backgrounds to share their visions for this new era.

Among the topics we’ll discuss are:

  • What do women want?
  • Who are the role models?
  • How can we heal the damage done by lifetimes of inequality and disempowerment?
  • How can we ensure that everyone is included in the revolution?

Panelists Include:

Alia Adams is a trans woman of color. She was born in Uganda and fled the country in 2015 after the president of Uganda signed the Anti-Homosexual Act. Having been outed by a local tabloid for being transgender, she was forced to flee for her safety. She currently lives in Albany, NY, where she works as a patient care associate. Alia is also a sex worker rights activist, human rights activist and queer feminist.

Diana Adams is Principal of Diana Adams Law & Mediation, PLLC, a boutique LGBTQ family law and mediation firm based in New York City and Frankfurt, Germany, serving primarily same-sex couples, polyamorous and non-nuclear families. Diana speaks internationally as a thought leader on LGBTQ family law and evolving family structure. Diana also teaches Courageous Conversations, her program on empowered communication, Non-Violent Communication and dispute resolution, in diverse venues such as Yale, law schools, Omega Women’s Leadership Center, and corporate trainings. Diana is the Director of the Euro LGBT Family Law Institute, connecting leaders in LGBTQ family law internationally. Follow her on twitter or Facebook@DianaAdamsEsq.; www.CourageousConversations.Work

Zahava Griss (Z, pronouns: they/them) is a dancer, coach, kink educator, and author. Z directs Do Good Things with Power, a leadership immersion for facilitators transforming our culture of intimacy. Z has supported many people’s empowerment as they navigate sexuality, gender, race, and conscious power dynamics including guiding women’s circles for 15 years. Z focuses on inclusivity in sexuality, somatic, and dance communities. Z leads erotic grief rituals to enliven us, remind us who we are, what we want, who we come from and what we want to contribute to the world we desire, while seeing humanity as our team.


Mollena Lee Williams-Haas is a NYC born and raised writer, actress, BDSM Educator, Storyteller, sobriety fiend since March 14th 2007, and an Award-Winning Executive Pervert. Her opinion and viewpoints on issues of kink, Leather and BDSM are frequently sought after by news and information sources like The New York Times, The Huffington Post, Newsweek, Essence, and Ebony. Consciously kinky since 1993and active in leather and BDSM since 1996, she travels extensively, speaking on topics including kink, BDSM, power exchange relationships and negotiating it all safely.  She’s the co-author of the Toy bag Guide: Taboo Play and Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities.

Friday, October 12, 2018, 7:00 – 10:00 pm

Members $35/ Nonmembers $40

Find out more and register here.

18 October 2018

The Art of Penis Pleasuring

Facilitated by:  Martha Lee

Location: Singapore

Conducted more than 100 times in Singapore!

Welcome to the enchanting world of penis! Penises come in different sizes, angles, colors, smells and tastes. This is a workshop open to all genders, and penis owners will benefit from learning and understanding more about their own anatomy. Let’s talk openly about this often misunderstood part of the anatomy, and get all your questions answered, regardless of your gender or sexual orientation.

Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee will cover the following topics: penile anatomy; warming up and playing with cock with your hands, penis massage, how to experiment with speed, pressure and rhythm, lubes, safer sex, and more! where the best of her male genital massage techniques are taught.

These are the SAME techniques taught to clients who have premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and erectile difficulties (not due to physical nature). They are, therefore, therapeutic techniques often taught and used in tantra and somatic bodywork.

You will learn:

  • Male sexual anatomy – including the location of the elusive Male G spot
  • More than 20 penile massage techniques – frenulum, shaft, testicles etc.
  • 5 types of lubricants to incorporate into your sex play
  • The role and importance of breathing for orgasmic experiences
  • How to experiment with speed, pressure, and rhythm
  • How to achieve long-lasting ecstasy
  • What an energy orgasm is

The session will be held using sex toys, all in a warm and friendly environment that encourages learning and discussion.

Fee: S$158 per person

Find out more and register here.

19 October 2018

The Art of Vulva Pleasuring

Facilitated by:  Martha Lee

Location: Singapore

In this workshop, Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee will help you to understand the vulva and the vagina better, regardless of your gender or sexual orientation. It will help you to feel more comfortable with this part of the body and more in tune with your own needs or that of your partner.

If you are a owner of a vulva… Many women want to attend my Penis Pleasuring workshop to give, and please their partners. But seldom do the same people who give so much so generously all the time ever attend the Vulva Pleasuring workshop for themselves. They know LESS about their own bodies than their partners. If you are a vulva owner, change this. Learn about your body. Own your body. Your sexuality is yours to share – to decide how you need to know you… Pleasure is yours.

If you seeking to please a vulva owner… Yes, this workshop is also for you! You need to increase your sexual knowledge, and sexual skills so as to give more pleasure. With knowledge and skills comes confidence.

You will learn:

  • Female sexual anatomy – including the location of the elusive G spot
  • More than 20 erotic massage techniques for the labia, clitoris, vagina, and the G spot
  • 5 types of lubricants to incorporate into your sex play
  • The role and importance of breathing for orgasmic experiences
  • How to experiment with speed, pressure, and rhythm
  • How to achieve long-lasting ecstasy
  • What an energy orgasm is

The session will be held using sex toys, all in a warm and friendly environment that encourages learning and discussion.

Fee: S$158 per person

Find out more and register here.

26 October 2018

Held an Exploration with Bedsheets

Facilitated by:  Martha Lee

Location: Singapore

Do you miss a time when life was simpler and you were nurtured in your mommy’s womb?

Do you remember how it felt when you were swaddled as a baby?

Have you come across Otonamaki (adult wrapping) as a relaxation therapy and want to try it?

If yes, let’s meet and do an exploration with bedsheets! This will be a facilitation session which involves pair work. You can come with your own partner or find one at the session.

What to do:
Bring your own yoga mat + 2 pillows + at least one clean queen size bedsheet + own water. You’d need it!

Do NOT come with a full stomach. Please eat lightly.

Wear loose comfortable clothes as there will sitting and movement practices taught – not skirts, jeans, jewelry or tight clothes. Do bring a change of clothes if you need to.

Date: Fri 26 Oct – Sat 26 Oct 2018

Time: 10:30 – 12:30a.m. (Please arrive by 10:15p.m. We want to start on time!)

Fee: S$28 per person

Find out more and register here.

2 November 2018

Getting Conscious with Kink

Facilitated by: Seani Love

Location: Munich, Germany

Are you curious about Conscious Kink and BDSM?

Are you ready to expand your understanding of erotic expression?

Would you love to deepen trust, connection, communication, and erotic creativity in your intimate relationships?

Then this breathtaking journey into the wonderfully erotic world of Conscious Kink is your best starting point! Whether you are a curious beginner or an experienced player, award-winning sexuality professional Seani Love with his talented super star team invites you to join them for this beautiful weekend of exploration.

Energy Exchange: €220 early bird, €250 full price

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